What Is Cunninglus
Cunninglus is where the mouth, lips, and tongue are used to stimulate a woman’s vagina. Cunninglus is arguably the most pleasurable form of sex for the majority of women. While mostly done as part of foreplay, cunninglus can be intercourse of its own. Cunninglus is used to describe the act of giving oral pleasure to a woman. In slang language, cunninglus is also known as going down, muff diving, eating out, or tipping the velvet.
Although there are various claims in magazines and other media that discuss sex and adult content, there is no particular technique for performing cunninglus. Most women find that the clitoris is the most sensitive part of their erogenous zone, but each woman reacts differently to clitoral stimulation. So, individual response is as varied as the techniques used in cunninglus.
Giving cunninglus is a delicate skill that needs practice, patience, and dedication but once you learn to give it to a woman, they will appreciate your skill. You should be guided by your partner’s response and eventually you’ll hone your skill.
Every woman is different and every one reacts differently to every touch. More importantly, cunninglus is optional, and it often depends on how comfortable the two partners are with it, particularly the woman. Women that are confident with their bodies are typically more open to cunninglus.
Admittedly, some people find that cunninglus is somewhat gross, and, in fact, certain cultures and beliefs limit sexual activities to vaginal sex only. Although it is not out rightly banned, it is usually regarded as a highly undesirable act by some conservative religions.
Some women are simply concerned about how they might smell, taste, or look to their partner, so they end up being unreceptive to oral sex. After all, a woman can’t get more intimate that allowing someone to put their mouth between her legs. Likewise, women who are hesitant to receive oral sex are also usually unwilling to it to another person.
It’s worth noting that when it comes to cunninglus and oral sex in general, there’s no clear right or wrong. It’s a matter of being comfortable. In fact, people claim that once they get used to their partner’s smells and fluids, they eventually start to find them erotic and a big turn-on. When you get used to cunninglus – both the giver and the receiver – it becomes even more enjoyable, and so it’s important that you only share those pleasurable moments with people you really feel comfortable with.
Also, cunninglus is oral sex, and sex means that there will be exchange of bodily fluids, so this brings a possibility of sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Sometimes, it may be prudent to use a dental dam to prevent a possibility if STIs.
Cunninglus should be fun, and just like normal intercourse, it is a two way street. A partner that likes to receive oral sex should be willing to give it. Cunninglus should be fun and for many couples (both the man and the woman), it is one of the most enjoyable things out there.