Guide To Cunninglus
Cunninglus is the art of giving pleasure to a woman by kissing or licking her vulva and vagina with the tongue and mouth. It is a very intimate and delicate thing that needs patience and practice to get comfortable with, but once a man learns to do it right for any woman, they will be unreservedly grateful.
What applies to men applies to women as well – every woman is unique and so they will respond differently to the same touch. What’s indisputable is the fact that a few tools can match the tongue for the pleasure it can give to a woman.
The whole female genitalia is a marvel of an erogenous zone on a woman’s body. It is here that you find some of the most sensitive parts on a woman’s body, including the vulva, clitoris, clitoral hood, labia, and the perineum. So, with all this sensitivity confined in one place, it is important that the person that gives cunninglus knows what they are doing.
How Fast Should It Be?
While giving cunninglus, some people like to go fast, diving for the clitoris like a fireman going after fire. However, giving oral pleasure is not an attack, and, in fact, the clitoral glans should not be among the first areas to give direct stimulation.
Instead, you want to start slowly by licking around the clitoral hood and the crura, stimulating them slowly and lightly teasing the labia. At this point, it’s important to listen to her moans as they’ll guide you. Some women scream a lot while others make light moans. It takes a while before learning exactly what pleases your lover the most.
Added stimulation – such as using a finger or two inside the vagina – can create increased pleasure for some women. You may also extend your arms up to her breasts and play with them. You could also use your fingers to hold the vulva apart so that the tongue can get directly to the vulva.
As she gets closer to climax, she may need increased stimulation. Generally, the stimulation that is ideal for climax should be fast and rhythmic.
Getting Used To the Smell and Taste
Admittedly, all women do not smell the same. The vagina has a natural smell that is supposed to accomplish a certain goal during arousal. It is a primal function that is meant to attract and arouse a sexual partner. In fact, a vagina should have a smell. Of course, hygiene is paramount because the smell can become musky and repugnant without proper cleaning.
Every vagina smells differently, depending on a host of conditions, including diet, type of dress, hygiene, bowel habits, secretions from the glands, and the level of sweating. It takes a while to get used to your partner’s smell.
Like smell, vaginas taste different, depending on several factors. Normally, a vagina would taste slightly salty but this is not a given. Every woman tastes differently, so you’d just have to get used to your woman with time.